5 tips for keeping your cool

Blog > 5 tips for keeping your cool

14 January 2020


Anger is something we all experience from time to time. It is a natural human emotion. But when you notice that you feel angry more often that usual, or if anger seems to be affecting your physical health, it’s time to look at ways you can manage it and help yourself to feel calmer.

How does anger affect the body?

Anger can:

  • Increase your heart rate
  • Make your muscles feel tight or tense
  • Cause tightness in your chest
  • Make you feel hot

You might also have trouble sitting still or sleeping. Lack of sleep can cause stress and even poor physical health, so make sure you read our tips on sleeping better at night

How does anger affect the mind?

Anger can:

  • Cause stress
  • Make you feel confused
  • Leave you feeling mentally exhausted
  • Be very distracting

Mind, the mental health charity has some excellent resources on how to help deal with anger. But here are our tips:

5 tips for keeping your cool

Take a break

Go for a walk, find a quiet space where you can think clearly, or simply breathe deeply and slowly. You can also try to count up to, or down from 100, which will take your focus away from your anger and slow your pulse. Anything you can do to take some time out from the situation or feelings that are making you angry will help.

Play some music

Music can help change our mood and temporarily take our minds elsewhere. Play some of your favourite music and sing along or dance (if that helps) to help you move away from anger.

Write

You can simply write, scribble, or draw out your emotions into a pad whenever you need to. If you are struggling with anger more often lately, a diary might help you to notice patterns or situations that are making you angry or that you are finding stressful.

Talk to a friend

Find a trusted friend and share your frustrations with them. They might suggest a solution, or simply make you laugh (another great way to feel less angry).

Use your anger creatively

Emotions can be channelled into many creative activities. Paint, sing, do some gardening, or write a story when you feel angry. You will feel productive and it also works as a distraction for you too.

Not sure what else to try?

If these ideas don’t help you, consider talking with your doctor. They may recommend a mental health specialist or therapist to help you work through underlying factors that may contribute to anger.

Resources:

https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/stress-anxiety-depression/controlling-anger/

https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/types-of-mental-health-problems/anger/managing-outbursts/#.XeTiaZP7RD8

 

GP24 Advice Line

At CS Healthcare, we are always looking at ways to improve the products and services we offer to our members. We understand that accessing GP services quickly and at a time convenient for you can be challenging. This is why we are pleased to announce we are improving the advice line service that is available to all our members.

Open Eligibility

CS Healthcare is pleased to announce an exciting change to its eligibility criteria.

Historically, all new members were considered eligible to join CS Healthcare based on their chosen profession. You had to work in the public sector or be a civil servant to become a member. As of August 2019, this eligibility criteria no longer applies. Now everyone can experience award-winning customer service.

Jargon Buster

CS Healthcare has been providing private healthcare for 90 years and during that time, we’ve discovered there are some medical phrases and terms that cause confusion. Our Jargon Buster is designed to simplify any complicated terms that you may not be familiar with. Make sure you refer back to it any time you're feeling unsure about a word or meaning as you are browsing the site.

Confused? Take a look at our Jargon Buster

Our Jargon Buster is designed to simplify any complicated terms that you may not be familiar with. Make sure you refer back to it any time you're feeling unsure about a word or meaning as you're browsing the site.